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What do you think of threesomes?

This is a taboo topic on JWR, so I would ask about it. Hehehe what are you thougts?

 

How do women feel on this topic, I know most of the guys are cool with trying this (at least with two women).

 

It would really depend on the situation, my personal situation at the time and if there was any alcohol involved. I would not be able to be involved personally with anyone involved. No quick easy answer for a complex question..sorry Freedom

 

Jezebel

It must be more popular than people know. There is a whole genre in the romance novel business of Menage/multiple partners. (Not that I've ever read them.)

Also, there are 'swingers' conventions at large hotel/casinos in Nevada.

Plenty of couples are interested in more spice and variety when it comes to sex.

 

I'll let you know if I ever get around to trying it

Making one happy is hard enough (no pun intended), now there are two!! **sigh**

 

This is a taboo topic on JWR, so I would ask about it. Hehehe what are you thougts?

 

How do women feel on this topic, I know most of the guys are cool with trying this (at least with two women).

 

Hmmm. As a woman, I think if I did get around to trying it, it would have to be me and two men.  Another woman there would just ruin it for me.

 

But, doubt it will happen. I like one on one. And my husband isn't the kind to share.

theoretically i think its a buzz but practically im not so sure, with human insecuirities always in the frame somewhere lurking around?, unless it with another couple that are strangers and dont live close by then i think it could really test a relationship, and  its a risk,  but hey after living such a safe cosseted life in the jws, maybe its just the job!!!!!!!! 

Perhaps I'm giving away too much information...but I enjoyed the one I've participated in.   My wife orchestrated it with her friend, and yes, alcohol was involved.

Love, new forum - one of the first threads is about threesomes. FFM - sounds interesting - MMF No!!!

This is my first posting on here.  I was looking to see if there is any discussion going on about the "God is Love" shocking set of Bible quotes, but then I saw this.

I've been in sexual threesomes in the past, several times.  I'm about 80% gay (and that's not why I stopped being a JW!) and I think gay men are far less bothered about sex with more than one person at one time.  I think each of the trios I've been in have been with a couple/partnership (it's been a while) and if it's discussed and agreed that it's just about sexual fun, I don't think there's a problem.

As well as that, I've known a few trios (i.e. people who have three-way partnerships), again gay but I've heard of some straight too.  It seems to have worked for some people.  So good!

I think some individuals within couples have some very different sexual interests (needs?) which the other partner can't or doesn't like to go with.  For me, the thing is to THINK, be AWARE, COMMUNICATE, re-COMMUNICATE, be HONEST, look at what you feel and consider why you feel that way, etc... self-awareness and honesty.  If that's too difficult, doesn't seem to me much of a relationship.  Or am I being a bit harsh?

Anyway, where can I find people discussing these appalling scriptures under the article heading God is Love ?

Clive

I wouldn't be opposed to it - either way, FFM or MMF. But, The Mr is, and before him, I didn't really sow much in the way of wild oats, so all this is theoretical.

At one point the idea sounded alluring, but I think realistically now I'd just want to focus all my attention on one person. Even if my partner is interested I don't know, I think it may be hard to do. I guess people are wired differently.

I suggested a FFM with the wife, she agreed only if I agreed to a MMF. I said yes and she chickened out. I have been involved in MMF and FFM before and enjoyed both.

I think every guy I have dated has brought this up to at least test the waters.

 

I thought this might be a fun thread to re-kindleInnocent

 

Jez

I participated in one when I was 18. It was spur of the moment with 2 guys and we had all been drinking. I was friends with the one guy (had been for a couple years) and the other guy was his college roommate. I don't remember much about it other than my friend had an orgasm first, me second and I think the roommate was close, but didn't finish... LOL

 

I haven't done one since and I would never do it again because I'm in a relationship with someone that I love very much and neither of us are into bringing anyone else into our sex life. However, we are far from prudish. I will leave it at that. Wink

Go Starr!

The real truth will stand up to any scrutiny.

3somes are fun.. I esp. like 2 guys and me. :-)

Threesomes?!!! I'm having a tough enough time finding a twosome! Surprised

Lucky women.  I think it's true... women have sex whenever they want to... men have sex whenever they can.

Relevant:

The real truth will stand up to any scrutiny.

did both MFM and FMF. enjoyed the 2 men much better. However, I am able to report that I'm definitely not lesbian. Fortunately I have an open minded husband but finding other straight men to join us is proving to be quite difficult.

 

Threesomes?!!! I'm having a tough enough time finding a twosome! Surprised

Lucky women.  I think it's true... women have sex whenever they want to... men have sex whenever they can.

only HWP women. Not many men go for us big women :/

Wow what a thread but i like it.  :)

I have been in several threesomes (FFM).  I still am with one couple to this day and I enjoy it.  It is all about respect, trust and communication really.

And how do i feel about it?  I enjoy it. I would also go for MMF as well.

 

 

How do you even begin to ask if this is something another person would be into doing with you and your SO? I'm uncomfortable with asking a friend so I don't ruin a friendship, and I am NOT finding a stranger on craigslist! lol